Maybe you’re rebellious and have a hard time doing what you’re told. Maybe you’re spontaneous and willing to make a few mistakes along this crazy journey called life. Maybe you don’t really think things through or you’re just going through a phase. You’ve had “the talk” with your parents and have been dutifully using protection since the very first time you did sexy things with someone else. Considering the fact that the ‘S’ in STD stands for sexually, it must be impossible to get an STD without doing the horizontal mambo, right? WRONG. The reality is that STDs are often spread without people even having intercourse.
There are 20 million new cases of sexually transmitted infections in the U.S. every year. You may be wondering how you could end up catching one yourself without having sex. That’s why we’ve put together a list of some of the most common ways people contract STDs without actually having sex.
Common Ways to Contract an STD Without Having Sex:
If you think kissing is sweet and innocent, think again. It’s true that if you’re trying to catch one of the big, bad sexually transmitted infections, tongue wrestling isn’t your best plan of action. A few STDs can be passed on when you swap spit, though. Mononucleosis is probably the first thing that comes to mind when you think of a kissing disease, but herpes, the virus that causes cold sores, is the one you should be on the lookout for!
Take the Downtown Express
Apparently, a lot of people don’t consider oral sex to be “real” sex because it doesn’t involve nether-region-to-nether-region contact or penetration. However you classify it, oral sex can transmit diseases quite easily if the penis, vagina, or anus involved are infected. The secretions, sores, and broken skin that are common to genital herpes, most commonly caused by herpes simplex virus 2, are all very likely to spread disease during oral sex. (Read more about that here!) Chlamydia, in rare cases, can infect your throat during to oral sex, and some diseases, like herpes and HPV (human papillomavirus), can’t be prevented by condoms.
You can get hepatitis A (HAV) from food that has been contaminated. If someone who is prepping your meal has hepatitis A and didn’t wash their hands well after using the restroom, you can end up with catching it from your food. Yuck!
Get Close Without Clothes
Skin-to-skin contact may seem harmless, but it’s all herpes or HPV need to become your lifelong viral travel companion. The bare-down-there grooming trend makes transmission even more likely because it is easier to cause breaks in the skin. Your risk of contracting either infection depends on a number of factors, such as the level of infection and condition of the skin.
Much like the skin-to-skin contact mentioned above, indirect contact is a less likely, but still possible, way to contract an STD without having sex. Trichomoniasis can be spread by hand-to-genital contact or even hitch a ride to your genitals on an unwashed sex toy.
Share Sheets (or Towels or Clothes)
You aren’t likely to find viral infections present in your towels or sheets, but there could be other infections waiting in the fibers. The single-celled protozoan parasite called Trichomonas vaginalis causes trichomoniasis. This parasite loves damp fabrics and can hang out for almost an hour outside the body waiting for you. Crabs, or pubic lice, are creatures that can also stick around in your bedding or clothing. Read more about these creepy crawlies here.
Get Some Color
One of the most unexpected places to catch an STD without having sex may be radiating light at your local tanning salon. Molluscum contagiosum, a bumpy genital infection and definitely not a spell from Harry Potter, can be spread by skin-to-skin contact or shared contaminated surfaces like your tanning bed.
Share a Shave
Sharing razors– or pretty much anything that cuts or pierces the skin– is a possible way to catch an STD without having sex. In the case of sharp objects, if one of the users is positive for HIV or hepatitis A, B, or C, there is a risk of breaking the skin and mixing blood, leading to the spread of the disease. It is very unlikely for an STD to be spread by sharing a razor, unlike sharing needles, which is a high-risk behavior.
If you get a blood transfusion from blood that has HIV, your chances of contracting HIV as well are extremely high. However, significant improvements have been made to screen blood donors over the last 30 years. For example, nowadays blood banks test every unit of donated blood for HIV-1 and HIV-2 antibodies so this greatly reduces your chances of contracting HIV through a blood transfusion. Additionally, you cannot contract HIV from donating blood either according to the Red Cross because they use sterile needles one time and then safely dispose of them. HIV is contracted via blood transfusion on occasion though and we have a story about a lady who got HIV from a blood transfusion while giving birth on another post on our blog.
All of the information meant to rattle you back to reality. Here’s the bottom line– if you suspect you may have an STD or you haven’t been tested recently, click here to get tested. If you are positive for an STD, it’s extremely important to begin treatment as soon as possible.